Nicole, Cows, and Puccini: December 25, 2007

Christmas Day, 2007

The inevitable has happened. I don’t mean the second coming of Christ, or snowfall on Christmas pines, or that Steven Spielberg has produced yet another Oscar winner. Rather, I speak of the inevitable event that has happened to every equestrian since the dawn of domesticating horses. To wit: getting bucked off.

This event marks a milestone in the relationship of every horseperson and every horse, and certainly in my relationship with Nicole, since this is the first time I have been removed unwillingly from her back. No equine relationship is solid until the rider finds their ass in the dirt, hopefully not too worse for the wear. Obviously, since I am writing this, I’m none too damaged by the event, and, in fact, had a premonition it would happen today.

Of course, Nicole being Nicole, this was not just a “crow-hop, oh the rider is in the dirt, whatcha doin’ down there?” sort of event. Oh no. Nicole’s style is nothing so subtle, innocent, or mundane. Rather, Nicole, as the mercurial diva of the barn, must execute a bucking incident in the maestoso grandeur of a Puccini aria, complete with giggly-school-girl-at-recess antics after that would appeal to the horsey perspective.

Because our last few rides had been punctuated by “scary door spooks,” I decided working outside in the field was in order, since no scary doors adorn the fields. Really, this was for her own benefit, as our rides inside were taking an hour longer than they had to because of tension, and I’m sure Nicole has been quite sore. I wanted to see how she would fare outside, and today I was able to end the ride after a ½ hr.

(Aside: We are still successful with relaxation and looseness since the Walter Zettl clinic. The issue is that going to the right, she tenses up as we get closer to the scary door, which interrupts her relaxation and looseness. I was told that when she tenses up, to circle her. While this works wonders going to the left, refocusing her and reminding her to bend, going to the right, this has resulted in, at times, 15 straight minutes of circling because she can’t get by the door without tensing up until she realizes she will have to work harder if she is tense. Overall, however, it has decreased the amount and length of tension going to the right, for example, instead of being tense the entire way down the long side, she is now only tense the first few feet in front of the scary door, so it is effective, but it will take longer to get her away from the habit of tensing up around the scary door.)

So began our ride, calmly, and in a pastoral setting altogether congruous with a Christmas Day ride. In this pastoral setting we sighted horses (obviously) and sheep, the type of beasts that mythically attended the birth of the newborn king, along with, oh yes, cows. Cows!

For those who don’t know, many horses are afraid of cows. Who knows why, probably because they are a massive entity that the horse can’t identify in their horsey-rolodex of friendly beasts, and of course, that means it will probably be a horse-eating cow, and better run away fast.

You’re probably thinking that this is where Nicole threw her bucking tantrum, but no. Nicole, in her own right, isn’t really afraid of cows, just excited by them, and definitely interested in what they were doing. After all, cows are MUCH more interesting than dressage. The gaggle of Holsteins, just as interested in Nicole, swarmed and shoved their way amongst each other to the fence line like socialites at a Chanel sample sale, a-mooin’ and a-cud chewin’, to gawk over the fence at the pretty mare that had come onto scene.

No dressage was going to happen as each species wondered if the other was going to attack them, and in the end, the cows went a-mooin’ and a-cud chewin’ away, flitting (as well as cows can flit) into another part of their pasture to avoid the cow-eating mare. Incidentally, this is how I know the horse isn’t the lunatic people think she is—she took the cows in stride, and the cows were more afraid of her than she was of them.

So, on to work, or so I thought. I don’t know if it was the fact that the cows got to relax in the sunshine and she didn’t, or the fact that there was a stallion within proximity, or the fact that she just plain didn’t feel like working today, but yours truly committed one of the 7 Deadly Sins of Riding, leaning too far forward in the saddle, and Nicole took full advantage of the situation, producing back-cracking, rodeo-style bucks, which, inescapably, bought me a one way ticket to the dirt. At least the ground was soft.

Because Nicole is never boring, perhaps undignified at times, but certainly never boring, she wouldn’t do something as simple as just dumping the rider and waiting until the rider is remounted. Instead, in an exploit worthy of a 5 year old child, she decided to run away towards her horsey friends, gallivanting with the geldings, who, just as jovial and mischievous as their feminine counterpart, took great fun in helping her celebrate her act of the “nyah-nyah you can’t catch me” variety.

Because situations like this require the rider to conduct herself with great dignity, instead of schvitzing myself trying to catch up with her, which of course is what she wanted, I instead chose to follow her at a leisurely pace. Everyone knows that I don’t run unless there is great inducement. Why would I run when I can ride a horse? Because human beings have brains 10 times the size of horses, but horses can certainly run 10 times faster than I, I wasn’t going to wear myself out chasing a beast of burden, but instead, wait until she invariably made some sort of mistake, allowing me to trap her.

Of course, after dodging me on 2 other occasions with her red tail flagging insolently, and not letting me within 10 feet of her, Nicole eventually made a strategic error in her recess from dressage, and lodged herself in an open space about 6 feet wide between two paddocks, one of which is her regular turnout paddock. Of course in her horsey-sized brain she figured that now she could go back to relaxing in the sun, eating grass, and being a mare.

I mentioned earlier that there was a stallion within Nicole’s proximity, and one of the paddocks she lodged herself between contained the stallion. No, it’s not as bad as you are thinking, but there is a twist to this story that had me close to vomiting for reasons that are not obvious.

The previous night, December 24th, I had a dream about Nicole, which is odd because although I dream frequently, this is the first time I’ve dreamed about Nicole that I can remember. In this dream, Nicole became pregnant accidentally, and produced a foal.

I cannot say what provoked this dream, but it was still heavy on my mind when I got to the barn and realized a stallion was turned out at the same time as Nicole (although they were very far away from each other and there was no reason for concern) and most certainly was on my mind as Nicole cavorted with said stallion. I’d already had premonitions that I was going to be dumped, and absolutely did not want to have the pride of saying my dream augured the conception of a foal on Christmas Day regardless of how handsome each parent is.

So, I broke my “no running” rule, and, doing my impression of Flash from “The Incredibles” booked it to the opening of the space between the two paddocks, spreading my arms wide so as to make Nicole realize there was no way out.

In an act of brilliance (oh I have such a smart mare), Nicole, realizing her error, considered making a final mad dash for freedom, and probably would have done so if she had not caught her reins on one of the posts, immobilizing herself better than I could have done myself. Of course, being a mare, she had to express her dissatisfaction at being caught by bucking at the stallion who so rudely (from her perspective) invaded her space, not considering that the world doesn’t revolve around her, and it was actually she who invaded the stallion’s space. But, of course, this is how it is with all beautiful women. They are never the invaders, but, rather the invaded.

And thus ended Nicole’s glorious release from dressage, and despite her tribute to high Greek tragedy (she done Sophocles proud), was quietly returned to schooling until she was loose and bending better to the right.

December 18, 2007

Something that has been hard for me to reconcile is the understanding that trainers, with their knowledge more vast than my own, still can be limited in their desire to see beyond the immediate and obvious. I suppose everyone in some way exhibits that quality, but when you look to trainers for advice, and receive advice that is inconsistent with the evidence in front of you, with no logical explanation for the difference, the discrepancy is unnerving to say the least. I'm a person that looks at an issue from every angle, weighing the raw data as well as the possibilities one can postulate based on that data.

As an undergraduate, the first educational lessons I received taught me that Truth, and Truth’s bastard child, Opinion, are spider webs—silken, sticky, dangerous as a double-edged sword, as scarce and transparent as the Hope diamond, yet ephemeral and easily torn down. I struggled for a while with this concept and its subsequent conclusion which is that we really know nothing for certain.

When receiving advice from trainers, it’s tempting to hide in opinion’s heroin embrace. After all, you trust your trainer’s knowledge, and it’s easier than thinking for yourself. But the sense of insecurity that derives from the conclusion that opinion is a matter of perspective forces one to look at concrete evidence to maintain sanity. Unfortunately, opinion is as a rainbow—a multi-colored image resulting from intangible light (trainer’s knowledge) reflecting off tangible water (the horse), forever seared into one’s view of rainstorms so that forgetting it is impossible, but still just an image that is never permanent.

It's been hard for me to reconcile that there are trainers out there who talk a good game, but when push comes to shove, and you look under the shiny veneer of their words, you see that sometimes there really isn't much tangible substance to their opinions at all. Over the past year, I've learned to actively question the advice I receive about Nicole, compare it to the gospel of the great masters, and, ultimately, look to the horse to tell me if the advice holds water. This is why the trainer who regurgitates from books basically holds no esteem with me, regardless of background; I can read also, and they aren't saying anything I can't discern on my own (this doesn't apply to those trainers universally agreed upon as being a master, since they wrote the book, so to speak).

Part of my absence from this blog has been because I've been trying to make sense about the varying opinions I have received regarding Nic. Her talent hasn't been up for debate; every trainer I have taken Nicole to has agreed that she is talented. What has been questioned, however, is how far her temperament will allow her to go. Relaxation being the key to successful dressage, and with Nicole lacking relaxation, I've received varying opinions about her ability to become an FEI horse, and over the past couple weeks have sought to resolve my own opinion about the matter.

This week I took Nicole to a clinic with Walter Zettl to seek his opinion on Nicole. You will recall that Mr. Zettl has seen Nicole in the past, and has given me a favorable opinion of her abilities. What I did not ask him in the past, however, is how he feels her temperament will affect her ability to progress up to the highest levels of dressage. I made sure to ask this time, including information about her age and temperament, and he again gave me a favorable opinion of her abilities, citing that her temperament will be the better for more training, and her age has nothing to do with her ability to progress.

Most importantly, however, he gave us some exercises to help loosen Nicole up, which in turn helps her suppleness. I repeated those exercises, and although Nic was a little over tempo, I had more success with her being loose in her muscles than I have had in the past few weeks. She displays more swung, and as a consequence, her tension has subsided.

One of my biggest issues with Nic is my tendency to default to cramming her between the reins and her hind end; in other words, not letting the energy flow through her. I blamed it, the past few months, on her tension, and claimed that she built a wall that made it hard to recycle that energy.

My past assertion was just wrong. This isn't to say that her tension doesn't contribute to building a wall, however, my approach to eliminate that tension just was not correct. Mr. Zettl said that when the horse is tense, give the reins. I was willing to do as he said in our lesson, but didn't really believe that if I gave the reins, the horse wouldn't spook every time she got the chance. Well, she didn't spook, and I realized, looking at the video, that when something bothered her, she looked at it for a few seconds, then went back to work. The next day, around the scary door in the indoor, she looked a little longer, but the video showed that it was for no more than 2-3 strides.

The difference is this: she didn't get less nervous about the scary door, but once she was done looking at it, she was loose again. She stopped holding that tension in, as she was doing before.

I also realized the past couple weeks that she is doing much better as far as tension goes. Nicole hasn't had any real mare moments since we moved, and at the clinic we had none, even though she previously had many at that barn. I described Nicole to Mr. Zettl and the auditors as being a spooky horse, however, the mare made a liar out of me, and displayed few signs of being tense at all.

Since this clinic, I’ve been trying to resolve just WHY one trainer sees Nic as a liability and yet another perceives her as an asset, and why the evidence I see that her mind is trainable isn’t obvious to everyone. Nicole, although older, is a horse in her 2nd year of training—basically a 4 year old horse both physically and mentally. The FEI 4 year old test is effectively a Training/First level test. The FEI Young Horse tests are for gifted horses; some will successfully be able to perform that test, but most will not. Using the young horse tests as a guide, one can determine that it’s expected that a horse like Nicole, while probably not gifted, is only expected to be at Training/First level, which means 15m canter circles, 10m trot circles, and lengthenings.

Viewed through this lens, it’s hard to expect too much out of her training-wise. Most horses at her level of training, although younger, are just coming into their own. She is in the adolescence of her training, if you will. I’m the first to forget this, believe me, yet it seems others, with broader experiences, forget it also. I don’t know why.

December 10, 2007

It's been a while. Basically, the changes that have been taking place have been so subtle and, dare I say, monotonous, that making note of them would put the reader to sleep. I've decided to start working with Nic more on her canter, as she is getting more through at the trot. This decision has been met with some, oh, shall we say, lack of enthusiasm on her end. The mare has expressed her opinion by inverting and stiffening.

I've decided, as well, to have a masseuse look at her, because sometimes she stiffens her right side to such an extent that she is just unsupple in that direction. If there is any back pain, the masseuse will find it, and if she finds nothing, then I can look to an alternate source causing her stiffness.

Reason dictates that this stiffening is just a growing pain coupled with the cold weather we've been having lately. She also has expressed signs of being in heat, which is odd given that all the world is dead from the cold, but since she is perpetually surrounded by stallions (very nicely behaved ones at that), I suppose it's inevitable.

Actually, re-reading my first paragraph, it really isn't fair to say that she is inverting and stiffening at the canter. That's not exactly what's going on. She, in my opinion, seems lovely to the right, and in both directions, actually does accept half halts fairly well. It's just that sometimes her nose is a little too far in front of the vertical going to the left and it's clear on the video that she isn't recycling her energy as well going to the left.

Yesterday we worked on 15m canter circles, and I'm surprised at how much effort it takes her to collect even that little bit. However, I remember a time, not so long ago, when I couldn't even steer her into a 15m canter circle (even a crappy one). Around last August, we went through this phase where she wasn't on the outside rein AT ALL going to the left. Asking her to create a smaller circle was impossible. Now, although they aren't always in good balance and aren't always completely through, it takes much less effort to ask for the smaller circle.

I also remember a time (as I'm sure you do as well) when we couldn't get a decent upward transition into the canter. Now, that's basically a given, and I've been told by this new trainer that her canter transitions are "very correct."

I'd say one of the bigger improvements, especially with regards to the canter, is that she does less pulling than before, and more staying on her hocks. I guess the best term is to say she is less "strung out."